We often define capacities as something that has been developed by our parents and has been taught in regular school. But have you ever thought about that you can develop your hidden capacities, or lets call it your super powers for fun? In other words something complementary to regular education.
When you develop and grow by going on this path you discover different aspects of love. So to discover your hidden capacitites is the way of the heart, a method to come in contact with our substantial beeing.
You can compare it to planting a small seed in the earth. Much work will have to be done, without quick results but in the end a tree will grow which will yield fruit.